Checking Loading

My son is an AA employee. As parents we have been enjoying non-rev travel for some time. When we travel my son lists us on newjetnet and checks the loading for us.My son says he is not allowed to let me log in to his newjetnet account. I understand my son is the only one who can list us for flights, but is there a way I can “peak” at the loading from time to time without bugging him to look it up? thanks.

Your son would be the best and only source for load info since you are using his travel privileges. There is no way for you to "peek" at load info.