We ended up in the Divi Aruba. They have several properties and are very nonrev friendly with listings in ASU all the time but I'm sure you can get their specials by calling directly. Though it wasn't ultra luxury, we found it to be more than adequate for us. I liked the all-inclusive deal for the family. The buffet was good but you can also make reservations for the nicer restaurant or eat pizza at one of the bars. When we were there, kids were free. It also included a rock climbing wall, kayaks, windsurfing. We also had access to the neighboring Divi Tamarind. When I was over there I noticed several teens in the lobby playing pool (2 or 3 tables) and they had an arcade too. There is a nice internet access room with several PCs - rates are real reasonable for high speed access. I got right on DLNet to check our return flight.

You reminded me - I need to do a full trip report!